What is all this disappointment teaching us?  
How is it bettering us as people?
What is being refined in us?
How are we better able to serve others?
What is being shaped and formed within us?
How can we better understand others?
How has long-suffered developed our character?
How has deep pain enabled us to be compassionate?
Have we learned forgiveness in all of this?
Have we yet learned to love ourselves?
Do we know how to love others?
Are we healed enough to receive love?
What is our main priority in this life?
What or whom do we live for?
How can we make life better for others?
How can we be more merciful towards others?
What does love look like?
Are we willing to lay down our lives for others?
Do we love unconditionally?
Is our heart motivated by purity or evil intent?
Are we willing to put others first?
How low can we bow before the Master of the Universe?
What is true humility?
Who do you love the most?
Have you died to the things of this world?