Enough

At what point, do we know it's time to cut the cord?
A noble heart of desiring to evolve, heal, and grow to the upmost,
is always good, but when do we know, when it's detrimental to 
our health to stay in a situation?   We must be careful of our intellect,
and our ananlytic selves.  The Spirit is something quite different.
Although we are aware that God gives us constant opportunities 
to be healed of our woundedness, we must be so discerning as to
the time to severe ourselves from a bad situation.    I have come to 
the conclusion that my time is here, and I must do this now.   Not
without much pain and heartache.   The scriptures tell us, never to 
put our trust in man, he will always dissapoint us.   But we cannot
have real relationships if we don't.   We just have to understand that
man is human, and severly flawed, and to know we will be let down
and dissapointed at times.   We are never to put man on a pedestal or
put an expectation on him that he will 'always' do the right thing, he 
will not.    When we are betrayed by our friends, it's very painful.
We must always forgive them and release them to God.  Not an easy 
endeavor, but it can be done, only through the grace of God in our
lives.   Yeshua (Jesus) said, "Bless your enemies".   After all it's not
necessarily the person who is the enemy, but the spirit they're 
cooperating with.    We make choices all the time.    If we aren't careful
we can come into agreement with a lying spirit, and not necessarily know
it.   We just think we've changed our minds and taken another perspective
or stanze, when in fact, we may have just partnered with the enemy.
After having said all this, I quote an expression that is very true: 
"Time reveals all".   Time reveals if a friendship is really authentic, or if 
it never was in the first place.    Atleast I know what the behaviour is I am
to take, and what I am to do, according to God's way of doing things.  
Leave, forgive, and release to God.    Selah.